Night Terrors

Over the past month, Sarah has woken up 3 different times because of night terrors. About.com says, "When you hear how most experts describe night terrors, it is easy to see why parents find them distressing. Children who have night terrors are usually described as 'bolting upright' with their eyes wide open, with a look of fear and panic, and letting out a 'blood curdling scream'. These kids will usually also be sweating, breathing fast and have a rapid heart rate (autonomic signs). And although it will seem like they are awake, during a night terror, children will appear confused, will not be consolable and won't recognize you." Night terrors can be caused by over-tiredness or stress, and usually the child doesn't remember them in the morning.

The first time, she woke up screaming and sweating and babbling something about the house only being halfway done and wanting to be a zoo keeper. It was a little funny and a little frightening, but once we figured out what was going on, we could deal with it much better.

The second time, she was screaming about having to clean her room by herself. Are you sensing a pattern here?

Last night, she woke up screaming again. Steve took care of her and doesn't know what it was about, so this morning, I asked her. Confused, she answered, "Nightmare? I had a good dream last night." No help there.

At least two of the three times, she, apparently, had nightmares about chores! So I've started wondering . . . . Am I stressing her out by making her clean her room? Is picking up her toys and clothes too difficult? Am I really that tough of a taskmaster, that she would have choremares?!?

I hope she outgrows it soon. Anyone who has known Sarah for a while knows how loud and ear-piercing her scream can be. It's quite an unnerving sound at 2 in the morning. At least she doesn't remember it.

For Grandma . . .

. . . and just because she's so darn cute, I can hardly stand it.

about a month old

She's usually such a happy, good-natured baby,
but not on picture day.

She cried her eyes out almost the entire time.

We managed to get a few good shots when she paused
in her screaming to breathe.

Leah's first day at church (6 weeks old). I think the lovely pink chairs in the mother's lounge could use a good cleaning.

so happy with a full tummy

Grandma, I promise we'll see you soon.

Good Manners = Respect

As all mothers know, a two-year-old's favorite word is usually a loud whiny "NO!" Very annoying.

I've worked hard with Sam to get him to say no politely and in a nice voice. It seems to have taken.

I ask him if he wants some salad
He says politely while violently shaking his head, "No thank you."

I say, "Sam, it's bed time."
He says, in his sad (but still nice) voice, "No thank you."

"Sam, it's shower time."
"No thank you."

As he runs away from me, "Sam, come back!"
Still running, "No thank you."

"Sam quit holding yourself and go use the potty."
"No thank you."

"Do you need to go on time-out!"
"No thank you."

"Pick your trash up off the floor, please."
"No thank you."

"Are you going to throw up?"
"No thank you."

In the movie Blast From the Past, Adam learns from his mother that "good manners are just a way of showing other people we have respect for them." It would appear that Sam has lots of respect for me . . . or am I missing something?

SHHH . . . Don't Wake the Baby

One of my favorite times of day is BEDTIME. I love to crawl into my soft, cozy bed with a book that I read until I fall asleep.

Since Leah is still in our bedroom, though, I haven't been able to read at night, and I MISS IT. I used to have a decent booklight, but it has disappeared along with everything else of interest to a 2 year old that is not nailed down.

The other night, I scrounged around until I found a flashlight and took it to bed with me so I could read without waking up the little angel. I was feeling a little guilty about staying up reading so late, but it was pure heaven.

Until . . .

. . . a big, hairy spider crawled down the sheets right over my arm. Have you ever had to freak out quietly so as not to wake the baby? It's not easy.

Forget sleeping when the baby sleeps. I may never go to bed without my flashlight again!

Tag 8

Check me out - new posts two days in a row. Shocking, I know. But I didn't want to have to re-write my "8 things that happened yesterday" when Sam provided me with such a good and nasty one.

8 favorite TV Shows
1. So You Think You Can Dance
2. American Idol
3. Desperate Housewives
4. Pushing Daisies
5. Samantha Who?
6. The Office
7. Ace of Cakes
8. Lost


8 favorite Restaurants
1. Andre's in Las Vegas
2. Bombay House
3. Mandarin in Bountiful
4. California Pizza Kitchen
5. Chipotle
6. Thai Chili Gardens
7. Cafe Rio, but only during off hours
8. Sonic - they have the BEST ice


8 things that happened yesterday
1. Sam pooed in his pants, and "it" fell down into the leg. The only way I knew it was there was because his pants thunked when I dropped them on the floor.
2. Matt got grounded for a week, probation for a month. (He better watch those grades!)
3. Poor Leah smelled exactly like Matt used to smell - mmmm, sulfur
4. Sam learned that if he wants Pellegrino, he has to ask for "Fire Water"
5. Sarah had a night terror - something about the house only being halfway clean and wanting to be a zoo keeper (I know I shouldn't laugh, she was seriously traumatized, but I can't help it)
6. Anna made shortbread in our cute new shortbread pans.
7. Sarah puked - made it to the toilet and didn't scream even once. Way to go, Sarah!!! (I'll have to do a post on the history of Sarah's puking.)
8. I fined each kid 3 pieces of candy - SCORE! (thank you for your wise parenting advice, Celia)


8 things to look forward to
1. getting some muscle strength back in my stomach and back
2. going to California for Christmas
3. summer vacation and, thus, no more homework
4. warm weather
5. planting my garden
6. Sam being really and truly potty trained
7. no debt
8. being able to wear a good bra again


8 Things I Love about Fall
1. Thanksgiving
2. the colors, especially on the mountains with their gray stone peaks
3. soup (my new favorite is chicken tortilla soup)
4. Halloween
5. holiday baking
6. my heating pad
7. my slippers
8. my flannel nightgown


8 things in my wish list (this was surprisingly hard - I guess I'm fairly content)
1. a new car
2. a housekeeper along the lines of Alice
3. a trip to Europe with just my husband - no kids
4. a trip with just my mom and sisters - it has to be at least a week to qualify
5. a Kindle (it'll save me money, right?!)
6. steady, as in non-seasonal, income
7. lasting health for my family, especially through this winter with a new baby in the house
8. a stable economy


8 people I tag

Anyone who wants to play, but especially Anna, Matt, Sarah and Kate because my kids (and niece) are awesome and I love to hear what they have to say.

How to Break a Bad Habit

Sam likes to climb up onto the bathroom counter top. Then he can't get down by himself, so I find myself being called to his rescue several times a day. Last week, this is what happened when he climbed onto the upstairs counter top while I was working in the basement.

It would seem that I didn't hear him calling me, so he finally gave up and took a nap. (Do I win mother of the year?) Poor Sam. He was not a happy boy when he woke up, but he hasn't climbed up since. How's that for effective aversion training?

Does anyone have any suggestions for a gate that he can't yank down or climb over?

5 Weeks Old

I can't imagine that there's ever been another family who has enjoyed a baby more.

I've heard that having a new baby gives you the same feelings as being in love. I'm pretty sure it's true.

She's got the softest cheeks; I can't get enough of kissing them.

She's such a happy, good-natured baby . . . except when she's not. She's been smiling since she was just 2 days old.

The best part of all is that she's a sleeper. She slept through the night for the first time before she was even 2 weeks old. She doesn't always sleep through the night but will usually sleep for at least 5 hours at a time. And she takes a good 3 hour nap every day.

What an angel!

A Game of TAG

Copy, Paste, Fill in the blank

• I am well-rested (Leah usually sleeps well at night)
• I know pie crust
• I want to hold my new nephew
• I have a lot of gray hair (almost the entire front of my head)
• I wish I could pause time for just a little while - it's going too fast
• I hate my kids' homework
• I miss having a new-ish car
• I fear . . . can't even write it "out loud" because it would tempt fate
• I feel squishy
• I hear Steve practicing DDR so he can attempt to beat me when I'm up to it again
• I smell like spit-up
• I crave a turkey sandwich
• I search for Leah's lost bracelet :-(
• I wonder if Leah will get ear infections as much as my other girls did (please, no)
• I regret my impatience with my kids
• I love my family
• I care about how my towels and sheets are folded
• I always wait and watch for kids to make it inside when I drop them off at home
• I am going to Cali for Christmas
• I believe in the gospel of Jesus Christ
• I dance to tease Sam (he tells me to stop)
• I sing You Are My Sunshine to my babies (all 6 of them)
• I fight my weight
• I write detailed to-do lists
• I lose rent checks (the rule now is that I have to put them on the refrigerator the moment they are in my hand - no setting them down ANYWHERE ELSE)
• I win at Boggle when I play with my husband and children, but never with my sister-in-law
• I never plan to be pregnant again. Yippee!
• I listen as long as you make sure you have my usually fragmented attention before you start talking
• I am scared of loud, strong wind (because of seeing Darby O'Gill and the Little People when I was a little girl)
• I need to clean my bedroom (pigpen catch-all room)
• I hope my kids stay as kind and good as they are now
  

I tag: Anna, Matt, Sarah and Kate

The Best Big Brother

Sam is proving to be such a good big brother. Although he is emotionally traumatized, between whining and crying jags, he asks me all the time if he can "hold it" (eventually, he'll learn to call Leah "her"). Apparently, he doesn't realize that his new baby sister is the reason he has been so out of sorts. He thinks she is so cute and loves her little toes and the funny faces she makes. He only gets upset when Steve holds her. He says (whines), "Daaaaaad, don't do that. Mom holds baby Leah." He loves his new baby.

He'll even pull up his shirt and ask, "Baby Leah want Sam milk?" He's a natural nurturer.

Is it just my imagination, or does she look a little worried?

Jackrabbit Feet

Leah's feet are hilarious.

Have you ever seen such long, skinny feet on a baby?!? The bandaid makes them look deceptively short, but notice that her heel sticks out past the bandaid. That makes her feet almost as long as her shins.

* I measured; her feet are 3 1/4 inches long, and her shins, from ankle to knee, are 3 3/4 inches long (yes, Ashly, I am a nerd).